We Fight Make Up Again Tired of
Relationships can often tire you out.
Some days you find yourself fighting over the same thing that you have been trying to solve for the past three years and on some days even the biggest issue is solved in a day with just a basic discussion.
We just have to learn to let go of fights and ensure that our egos and self-respect remain intact.
If you're just tired of all these arguments and don't know how to end the most recent one with your spouse/boyfriend/fiancé, we are here to help. You can copy-paste these lines into a text message and send it to them, or just repeat these lines to them.
What to say after an argument with your Partner
Here is the list of some best things to say your partner over text to end the fight.
1. I agree with what you said but I needed to say my side too
This works best with men. They feel they weren't heard in the fight and just letting them know that you agree with them is enough to help settle things.
2. First things first, I love you. And second, I hate fighting with you.
Anybody who fights with you after you tell them that you hate arguing with them is not worthy of you.
3. It is a pattern, we just keep throwing things into the argument. I want to stop doing that with you.
This will make him feel that both of you brought a lot of different things into the fight which wasn't what you started with and it will give him perspective. To top that, you tell him that you want to create a healthier pattern with him which will make him feel secure and loved.
4. I shouldn't have lost my temper last night. I can sit down and do this with you now if you want.
This will make your partner keep his temper in check too. Period.
5. That fight was silly and if you really think about it, quite unnecessary as well. Let's get over it?
The only answer you will get is, 'Sure, babe.'
6. If I had a guide for what to say to my boyfriend after an argument, I would choose the best line from it. But I only have a sorry for now. So ... sorry?
This is sure to melt a man's heart.
7. I shouldn't have taken things this far and I would like to begin this discussion with an apology. Now we can healthily argue again if you want.
This is either just to end the argument or take it towards a lighter, less aggressive route.
8. It was all a build-up. My work was shitty, my family was being difficult and I shouldn't have used you as my punching bag.
If he loves you, he will understand that life can get a little hard at times and you end up venting your anger where you are not meant to.
9. Last night scared me. My parents never argued and it was all so new for me and I didn't know how to process it. Can we please work through it?
Nobody wants to know that their argument style scared the other person. So he will surely take a step back and think about it once.
10. My friends told me that arguments are natural in relationships, all good days will bore us out. But I told them I'll only agree if you said it.
Being cute doesn't always work. But if you know your fighting pattern then throw this in at a time when you think he will take it well and not add fuel to the fire.
Source: https://www.idiva.com/relationships-love/relationships/things-to-say-to-a-partner-over-text-to-end-a-fight/18007855
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